It can be difficult for a Taurus man to apologize. Taurus men are some of the most stubborn men you’ll ever meet.
When he does apologize, it won’t always be the apology you want. He apologizes uniquely.
Your Taurus man will take his time before apologizing to you. He’ll give you time to calm down and possibly move on with no apology necessary.
When he does apologize, your Taurus man might try to share the blame or excuse his behavior. He won’t lie to you or say you misunderstood something, though. He will acknowledge that you’re hurt. He doesn’t want to take all the blame.
Most Taurus men prefer to apologize with gifts and actions. He’ll cook your favorite meal or buy you a new necklace instead of verbally apologizing sometimes.
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He’ll Take His Time
A Taurus man needs time to think after an argument. He’ll want to gather his thoughts and go over what happened before he does anything else.
Don’t expect an immediate apology after a Taurus man has upset you. There are times when he’ll apologize right away after realizing he’s made a mistake. He won’t always do that.
Taurus men aren’t always good with words. Even if he intends to apologize, he will still need time to go over what he wants to say. He doesn’t want to say the wrong thing and upset you all over again.
If you want your apology, give your Taurus man the time he needs. Let him go over what he wants to say. Allow time for you both to calm down so you can have a better discussion.
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He’ll Express Guilt
Will a Taurus man feel guilty for upsetting you? He will! He will sometimes use an expression of guilt in place of a genuine apology.
He might say something like, “I feel terrible I upset you.” For a Taurus man, that is an apology. He won’t always tell you he’s sorry.
If he tells you he feels guilty, he’s not trying to make an apology about himself. He’s trying to let you know that he feels terrible about what he did.
He doesn’t want comfort over his feelings. He’s just trying to express them to you.
Apologies like this can feel dismissive. That’s not a Taurus man’s intention at all, most of the time.
He might express his guilt non-verbally as well. When he goes out of his way to be more helpful around the house, that’s one way a Taurus man shows he feels guilty and wants to make things up to you.
Won’t Admit Wrongdoing
If you’re in a relationship with a Taurus man, you know how stubborn he is.
Taurus men have trouble admitting when they’re wrong. That can make apologizing difficult for them.
Your Taurus man will apologize to you, but he won’t always admit wrongdoing. He will let you know that he’s sorry his actions upset you, but he won’t always apologize for the actions themselves.
Sometimes, a Taurus man honestly doesn’t think he did anything wrong in the first place. If he did something by accident, he’ll promise not to do it again. He won’t say he was mistaken for doing what he did.
Other times, he knows he’s wrong. He won’t always admit it, but he can accept that he isn’t always right.
If you need an admission of wrongdoing with your apology, you might need to let go of that expectation. Your Taurus man isn’t always going to apologize how you want him to.
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He’ll Say You’re Both Wrong
Your Taurus man might tell you that you both have reasons to apologize while he’s apologizing to you.
Sharing the blame is common after fights. You two likely both said or did hurtful things if you argued with your Taurus man. He won’t apologize to you without acknowledging that.
He’s not saying you’re both wrong to deflect from his actions most of the time. Your Taurus man doesn’t want to be the only one to apologize if he wasn’t the only one to do something wrong.
It will be easier for your Taurus man to apologize if you apologize first when necessary. If you want a quick apology, apologizing first usually speeds up the process.
He may have a hard time saying he’s sorry. If you say you’re sorry first, that will get things going, and he’ll be able to apologize with less difficulty.
He’ll Excuse His Behavior
A Taurus man is stubborn. Even if he knows he messed up, he might try to excuse his behavior.
If he said something hurtful, he might say he didn’t know it would have that effect. That may be true, but it doesn’t make what he said less upsetting!
He might say he only said something rude to you because he was frustrated. Again, that shows his rationale, but knowing why your Taurus man did something won’t always make you feel better.
Some Taurus men do this to try and get out of an apology or in place of an apology. Other Taurus men honestly want you to know their thought processes.
If your Taurus man didn’t mean to hurt you, he wants you to know it wasn’t intentional. Letting you know his thought process is one way he shows you he wasn’t trying to hurt you on purpose.
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Acknowledge Your Feelings
Will a Taurus man apologize after upsetting you? Even if he doesn’t, he’ll at least acknowledge how you feel.
Emotions are challenging for a Taurus man. He isn’t always good at talking about how he feels. He’s also not always good at comforting other people or dealing with their feelings.
He might say something like, “I understand why you’re upset,” or, “I can see that you’re angry.” Statements like this are his way of letting you know that he does acknowledge how you’re feeling.
He might not always know how to handle your feelings. Your Taurus man won’t always apologize the way you want him to. He will try to understand where you’re coming from, though.
He Won’t Lie
A Taurus man’s communication style is honest. He won’t say he’s sorry if he’s not.
He also won’t try to manipulate you into thinking he didn’t do or say something when he did. Taurus men are usually honest people. Even if he doesn’t admit what he did was wrong, he won’t deny doing it.
If he says he thinks you’re both to blame for a situation, he honestly believes that. He’s not just saying that to turn things around on you.
When a Taurus man says he doesn’t understand what he did wrong, he’s being honest about that as well. Sometimes he needs an explanation to know why something he said was hurtful.
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No “Generic” Apologies
How does a Taurus man apologize? He prefers to be specific when he apologizes verbally. He won’t give you a generic, “I’m sorry.”
When your Taurus man apologizes to you, he’ll be clear about what he’s sorry for.
Sometimes, this will involve admitting he was wrong, acknowledging what he did, and promising to do better in the future.
Other times, he will only apologize for the fact that you’re upset. He will be sorry that you’re sad or angry. He won’t always take the blame for his part in how you feel.
Your Taurus man will be specific about what he does and does not feel sorry for. This is one of the reasons he needs time to formulate his apology! Each one will be tailored to the specific situation.
He’ll Give You Gifts
Gift giving is a Taurus man’s love language. He might give you gifts in place of a verbal apology.
When a Taurus man gives you a gift, he’s telling you he loves you. After he’s done something to upset you, he’ll want to make sure that you know how much he cares.
The gifts might be extravagant, depending on what he’s apologizing for. Your Taurus man may get an expensive pair of earrings you said you wanted. He might also give you smaller gifts, like flowers or your favorite candy.
He’s not necessarily trying to avoid apologizing. For many Taurus men, giving you gifts is an apology. He’ll likely accept gifts from you in place of a verbal apology as well.
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He’ll Treat You Right
A Taurus man’s apology style is usually indirect. He won’t always tell you he’s sorry. He’ll show you.
When a Taurus man loves you, he doesn’t want to upset you. If he makes you sad, he’ll be extra kind afterward to make it up to you.
Your Taurus man might take you out to your favorite restaurant as a way of apologizing. He might show up with coffee after an argument.
He’ll make you breakfast in bed, send you sweet text messages, and be more complimentary than usual.
Even if he doesn’t say, “I’m sorry,” your Taurus man wants to make sure you know he feels sorry for upsetting you.
After upsetting someone he cares about, a Taurus man will be extra careful with his actions and words. He doesn’t want to make the same mistake twice. He will try to avoid upsetting them again in the future.
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