Libra men give people the silent treatment as a way of avoiding confrontation. This is a man who hates calling people out if they’ve done something to upset him.
He also just gets in a mood sometimes and ignores everyone.
If your Libra man is giving you the silent treatment, the best thing to do first is to see if this silent treatment is being reserved just for you.
If he’s not posting on social media, not speaking in group chats, and avoiding other people, whatever is wrong likely has nothing to do with you.
If he’s being his usual social self with everyone, then you can start to wonder if you’ve done something wrong.
Usually, when he’s just upset or in a mood, he’ll come back after a couple of days. Libra men are social creatures and they don’t like to give others the silent treatment for long.
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Cheer Him Up
Sometimes when a Libra man is ignoring you, it’s because he’s upset about something. If you two disagreed, that will likely be why.
You can try to cheer him up. Don’t overdo it or bombard him with messages. Just send him something light that you think will lift his mood.
Try and keep feelings out of it. If he thinks you’re being too clingy or there is another problem, that might make things worse.
If you know he likes cats and/or dogs, send him a few pictures of your pets (or a friend’s pets if you don’t have any). Tell him there’s a new release by his favorite band. Let him know there’s an art exhibit you think he’ll like coming up soon.
If you know he’s giving you the silent treatment because he’s mad at you following an argument, apologize! That will be the best way to cheer him up in that case.
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Be Funny
If you reach out to a Libra man while he’s giving you the silent treatment, keep your messages light and funny.
You can try sending him a joke or a funny video you think he might like. You can also send him a story about something funny that happened to you that day.
If he’s feeling down, a humorous message from you might cheer him up. It might be just the thing he needs to hear to turn his mood around.
When your message is light, it won’t feel like you’re pressuring him for a response. It won’t seem like you’re accusing him of anything.
If he is ignoring you on purpose, a light message won’t make anything worse. It’s not going to add to whatever is angering or upsetting him.
A funny message can show him that you’re thinking of him. If he is upset with you, it might also remind him of what he likes about you!
Give Him Space
Sometimes when a Libra man is not responding to calls or messages, it’s because he needs some time to himself. Try to give him space if you think he needs it.
Libra men are social butterflies most of the time. They love to chat with people and be around others.
Most of the time, he’s probably happy to chat away with you all day long. Sometimes, though, he needs a break.
If he’s feeling overwhelmed or stressed out, being around friends and loved ones is usually what he needs to recharge. Other times, he wants some time to himself.
If he’s ignoring you and he’s also ignoring other friends, just let him be. He might need to take a weekend to himself. He may just need some self-care.
When he’s feeling like his normal social self again, he’ll reach out.
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Observe His Behavior
How does a Libra man test you? He doesn’t do it by ignoring you. He does it by doing certain things and then observing your reactions.
He’ll pick a fight just to see how long you’ll stay mad about it. He’ll pay attention to what you’re doing. He will reach out to see if you’re still angry at him.
If he’s giving you the silent treatment, it’s likely for a different reason. He’s probably not doing it to get a reaction out of you.
Think back to how he was acting the last time you spoke. Did he seem upset or on edge? Was he more quiet than usual?
You can also observe his behavior on social media. If he’s not posting as often (or at all), then whatever is wrong has nothing to do with you.
Pay attention to group chats. See if he shows up to parties you know he’s been invited to. If you normally see him at the gym or the coffee shop, check for him when you go.
His behavior will tell you a lot about whether or not he’s ignoring you or just ignoring people in general.
Check With Friends
When a Libra man goes quiet, you can try checking in with mutual friends to see if he is also giving them the silent treatment.
If he’s not talking to anyone else either, the problem is most likely not you. He’s not giving you the silent treatment, he’s giving it to the world.
Libra can be a bit dramatic sometimes. If he’s in a mood, he might withdraw from everyone and drop off the face of the planet.
When he feels better, he’ll reach out to everyone as if nothing happened. He might even show up with photos of him enjoying himself at a spa or a high-end restaurant.
When a Libra man is done with you, he’ll still be out enjoying time with other people. He’ll chat with his friends, go out to social events, and post online.
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Relax
If a Libra man is distancing himself from you, try to not let it get to you.
Instead, do some self-care. Get a relaxing massage. Have a girl’s night with your best friends. Take a weekend to recharge yourself.
Regardless of why he’s giving you the silent treatment, you shouldn’t focus too much on it.
If he’s just busy or needs time to himself, it’s pointless to get upset. Nothing is wrong. He just needs space. Take some space for yourself as well!
If he is angry with you, he needs to tell you that. If you have no reason to believe you’ve done anything wrong, just relax.
You might find that some time away from one another is just what you both need anyway. If there is some bad blood between you two, taking some time to relax and be away from one another can provide some clarity.
Don’t Pester Him
If a Libra man is not texting back and you’ve already sent him a couple of messages, don’t keep sending more.
If you’ve sent a couple of funny messages and he hasn’t even read them, leave him be. Even if your messages are light, too many of them might get overwhelming if he’s in a mood.
Sometimes when a Libra man has stopped texting you, it’s because he’s busy or because he’s feeling overwhelmed with something. If you constantly bother him with messages, it might just annoy him.
Libra men tend to be clingy. Most of the time, they enjoy spending a lot of time with their friends and partners. He might normally like to chat with you at all hours of the day.
If he’s giving you the silent treatment, it’s for a reason! If you’ve tried to reach out and he’s still ignoring you, give him a break.
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Be Calm
If a Libra man is giving mixed signals, try not to stress about it too much. If he is constantly going back and forth between ignoring you and chatting with you all day, don’t let him know that it upsets you.
He might be trying to get a reaction out of you by playing hot and cold. There might also be a reason behind his inconsistency that has nothing to do with you.
Either way, remain calm. Go about your life as usual. Don’t send him angry messages or rant about him to people who might tell him what you’ve been saying.
Have Fun
If a Libra man has gone silent, don’t let it affect you too much.
Just go out and have fun as you normally would. If you usually hang out with your Libra man, try asking somebody else to tag along for a change.
If he’s ignoring you on purpose, he’ll see that his silent treatment isn’t affecting you. If he’s just in a bad mood, he’ll be happy to know that his mood wasn’t bringing you down as well.
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Post Online
If your Libra man is giving you the silent treatment and you suspect he’s doing it on purpose, make sure you post about any adventures you have online.
Post photos on social media of parties you go to. Take selfies with all your friends and tag them.
He will see that his silent treatment isn’t doing anything to ruin your mood. This will force him to talk to you if he wants you to know you’ve done something wrong.
If he’s not ignoring you on purpose, all the posts might remind him of just how much he loves hanging out with you! If he’s been busy, he might reach out to let you know that he’s just caught up with something and see if he can hang out with you later.
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