Will a Scorpio Man Give An Apology After Upsetting You?

Scorpio men are capable of apologizing. If he truly feels sorry for hurting you, he’ll want to make it up to you. He doesn’t want to make the people he loves feel bad.

If he’s not sorry, he’s not going to bother apologizing. He might explain himself or tell you why he doesn’t feel bad for what he did. He won’t apologize even if that would make things easier.

Even when he does apologize, some Scorpio men have a hard time simply saying, “I’m sorry.” He might apologize in other ways.

He’s Proud

Do Scorpio men apologize? Some do but it is difficult for them to do so.

Scorpio is a fixed sign. Like their fellow fixed signs, including Leo and Taurus, they are stubborn and proud.

Some Scorpio men are more proud than others. Some are capable of working past their pride. Others let it get in the way of their relationships at times.

A proud Scorpio is not going to want to apologize, even if he knows he should.

Being wrong is a blow to his pride. Making a mistake is as well. If he accidentally did something to hurt you, his pride will be hurt because he lost control.

Scorpio men hate losing control. They like to feel like they are in control of themselves and the things around them at all times.

If he ever lashes out in anger or hurts someone without meaning to, he’s not going to handle that well.

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Difficult To Admit He’s Wrong

A Scorpio man won’t always want to admit he’s wrong. If you two argue, he’ll be reluctant to admit that you’re right even if he knows you are.

He’ll be even more reluctant to admit any wrongdoing if you push him to say that he was wrong. He’ll feel backed into a corner and his pride won’t let him say he’s wrong.

The best way to make a Scorpio man realize his mistake is to gently explain to him what he did wrong.

He has a difficult time admitting when he made a mistake. If you come at him with anger, he’s not going to react well.

Even if he knows he’s wrong, he won’t want to admit it if you’re too accusatory. You’ll want to deal with a Scorpio man after a fight by being patient with him.

Won’t Apologize To Be Polite

Will a Scorpio man apologize? He will but only if he genuinely is sorry. He won’t apologize just to be polite or make things easier.

You might be able to convince your Scorpio man to apologize to keep the peace but don’t expect that to be an easy task.

Scorpio men hate being insincere. He doesn’t like to say things if he doesn’t mean them. Even if it would make his life easier, he won’t do it most of the time.

Apologizing means admitting he was wrong. It means owning up to a mistake. If he legitimately doesn’t think he was wrong, he won’t apologize just to make you feel better.

If his lack of apology is causing a lot of problems, he might do something to make things up to you. He still won’t say sorry.

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The Blame Game

A Scorpio man won’t want to apologize if he thinks you are also to blame for whatever you two argued about.

He may have said something to upset you as a reaction to you upsetting him first. In that case, he won’t apologize unless you do first.

If you try to pin everything on him, expect him to fight back! He won’t take all the blame if he thinks that you also caused the problem.

He will be more likely to apologize to you after an argument if you apologize first. If you take the time to accept any wrongdoing on your part, he’ll feel better about taking some of the blame.

Might Not Be Sorry

When a Scorpio man hurts someone on accident, he will feel bad about it. It might take a while but he will eventually apologize for it.

Unfortunately, he isn’t always sorry for hurting somebody.

If he offered a valid criticism (or something he thinks is a valid criticism) and it hurt your feelings, he might not feel sorry about what he said. He may stand by it and think it’s something you needed to hear.

He can also be vindictive at times. If you did something to hurt him, he might lash out and do something to hurt you back on purpose.

If he said or did something to upset you on purpose, he won’t be sorry! He’ll feel vindicated. If you want an apology, you’ll need to make up for your mistake first.

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He’ll Feel Guilty & Insecure

Do Scorpios feel bad when they hurt someone? If he didn’t mean to hurt you, he will feel guilty about it.

When he loves you, he doesn’t want to hurt you. He wants to make you feel cared for as often as possible.

He’ll feel a huge amount of guilt if he accidentally says something to upset you. It may also make him feel insecure about the relationship or about his ability to stay under control.

If he feels guilty, he’ll be more likely to apologize. He’ll want to do something to absolve his guilt.

You might notice that your Scorpio man mopes around after an argument. This is because he feels bad! He’ll be extremely hard on himself after doing something to hurt his loved ones.

He’s Empathetic

When a Scorpio man hurts your feelings, he’ll usually know that immediately. He is good at picking up on the emotions of others, especially people he cares about.

Sometimes, he hopes that you’ll just get over whatever he did. Some people can easily get over a small insult or minor mistake without an apology.

If you don’t just get over it, he’ll know. Even if you don’t say anything he’ll usually be able to tell how you’re feeling.

His empathy for the people he cares about sometimes makes him apologize. He won’t be able to stand it if his partner is visibly upset for days at a time.

If he meant to hurt you, of course, he won’t care if you feel upset. It might even make him feel good to know that he was successful in upsetting you.

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He’ll Feel Embarrassed

Do Scorpio men feel guilty for hurting someone? They do sometimes. They may also feel embarrassed if they hurt somebody on accident.

As mentioned, Scorpio men hate losing control. They pride themselves on being able to control their emotions and how they express them.

If he upset you because he was angry and lost control, he’ll be embarrassed about that. He hates blowing up at people. He never wants his emotions to get the best of him.

Scorpio men react to their embarrassment in different ways. He might withdraw and avoid you for a while. He’ll need time to get over his feelings of embarrassment before he can discuss anything with you.

He might have a harder time apologizing if he feels embarrassed. Admitting he was wrong will just hurt his pride more and make him feel even more embarrassed.

Conditional Apologies

A Scorpio man might offer a conditional apology. This often feels insincere and incomplete.

He may say something like, “I already apologized,” and insist that you should accept a gift or something else he said as the apology you want.

He might say, “I’m sorry you’re upset,” instead of owning up to what he did. “I’m sorry you feel bad,” or “I’m sorry what I said upset you,” are common apologies from a Scorpio man.

He might also say, “I’m sorry but…” and list off all the reasons you should be sorry as well. He’ll point out your flaws. He’ll mention anything you said in an argument that upset him.

He’s not trying to be insincere when he apologizes like that. He’s just not used to apologizing in any other way.

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Unconventional Apologies

How does a Scorpio man apologize? When he does apologize to somebody, he’s not always going to do so in a conventional way.

Even if he is genuinely sorry, he might not say the words, “I’m sorry.” He has a hard time doing that.

A Scorpio man’s apology style involves more actions than words. He might be more affectionate with you. He’ll bring you gifts or take you out to your favorite restaurant.

As you get to know a Scorpio man better, you’ll be able to figure out what his apology style is. Even ones who apologize verbally might do so by complimenting you or saying they love you instead of saying sorry.

Whether or not you accept these unconventional apologies is up to you. Some people need to hear, “I’m sorry.” Other people will accept some affection and a promise to be better in the future.