10 Obvious Signs Scorpio Man is Not Interested (in You)

A Scorpio man will have no passion for you if he doesn’t like you. He won’t even playfully flirt if he’s trying to show he’s not interested. He might not even bother listening to you when you talk to him.

He won’t hide his interest in other people when you’re around. He’ll flirt with other people and feel no shame about it.

A Scorpio man might be downright rude if he’s not interested. If you’re not getting the point, he’ll pick fights and do other mean things to make himself clear.

1. No Passion

When a Scorpio man has lost interest, you’ll notice right away. Scorpio men are intense and passionate. All the passion he once felt for you will be gone.

He’ll have no problem showing the passion is gone, either. Scorpio men don’t like to pretend to feel something they don’t.

If he was previously interested and decides he no longer feels that way, you’ll know right away.

He won’t compliment you anymore. If he usually sends you gifts or sweet messages, he’ll stop that immediately.

Your Scorpio man will no longer seem excited when you tell him stories. He’ll become distant and disengaged whenever you two interact.

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2. Treats You Like a Chore

A Scorpio man will be visibly bored when you’re around if he’s not interested. If he has to be around you for some reason, he’ll treat it as a chore.

You two might have mutual friends. You may often end up at the same events if those friends invite you both.

He may have to interact with you now and then. If you two are involved in the same conversation, he won’t always be able to ignore you.

Your mutual friend may also ask a Scorpio man to be nice to you. He’ll try if he cares about that friend.

That doesn’t mean he has to like it! Even if he’s seemingly polite, he’s faking it. He won’t go out of his way to talk to you. He won’t act excited or try to talk to you any more than he has to.

3. He’s Interested In Others

A Scorpio man might like you as a friend and not be interested romantically. In this case, he won’t ignore you or treat you like a chore. He only does that when he doesn’t like you.

A Scorpio man will make it clear that he’s interested in others. If you are showing interest in him, he’ll do this as a way to get you to back off.

You’ll know a Scorpio man only sees you as a friend or acquaintance if he talks about other people he’s interested in.

He’ll tell you all about dates he’s been on recently. If you’re at a party with someone he’s interested in, he’ll point them out.

He’s not interested in you if he’s telling you about people he’s attracted to. He’s also trying to show you that he wants to be friends by sharing things with you and actively engaging in conversation.

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4. Never Listens

When a Scorpio man likes you, he’ll want to know everything about you. He’ll be legitimately interested in everything you have to say to him.

He won’t even try to listen when he’s not interested. He’ll appear bored. He may even walk away while you’re in the middle of saying something.

Scorpio men actively engage in conversation with people they’re interested in. He’ll do this whether he’s interested in you romantically or platonically.

When he doesn’t like you, you won’t be able to get his attention. No matter how exciting you think what you’re talking about is, he won’t listen.

If he has to listen to you for some reason, he’ll make it clear he’s just pretending to. He’ll play games on his phone or avoid looking at you.

5. He’s Rude

When a Scorpio man upsets you and cares about you, he’ll usually do something to make it up to you. He might be rude and upset you on purpose if he’s not interested.

A Scorpio man might avoid greeting you when he sees you at a party. He may walk off in the other direction the second you spot him.

He won’t even try to be polite. He might make judgmental comments, either directly to you or when he knows you can hear him talking to someone else.

You might notice that he’s constantly rolling his eyes when you talk. He might ignore something you said, only to respond to someone else when they say the same thing.

If a Scorpio man is polite to you because he must be, you’ll know he’s faking it. Scorpio men make it obvious when they’re not genuinely being polite.

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6. He Ignores You

If a Scorpio man is suddenly distant, that doesn’t always mean he’s not interested. Something else might be going on. He’s likely not interested if he’s always outright ignoring you.

He might also be mad at you if he’s ignoring you. Either way, there is a problem.

A Scorpio man’s silent treatment is intense. You’ll notice when he’s ignoring you.

When he always ignores you, that’s a sign he’s not interested. If he is, he’ll pay attention to you sometimes. He might seem hot and cold, but he will show some interest.

If he’s not interested, he’ll actively avoid you. He won’t listen to a word you say. If you ask him to do something, he’ll do the opposite to be contrary.

7. Never Makes Plans

One sign a Scorpio man is playing you is that he’ll only make plans with you when he wants something. When he’s not interested, though, he’ll never make plans with you.

He’ll never reach out to you to hang out. He will ignore any hints you drop that you want to go somewhere with him. He’ll have parties or go out and pointedly not invite you.

If you reach out to make plans with a Scorpio man, he’ll ignore you. He might read your message and not respond. He’s doing that on purpose, not because he forgot to reply.

If you manage to make plans with him, he’ll cancel at the last minute. He might even avoid making plans with a group if he knows you’re going to be there.

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8. Flirts In Front Of You

When a Scorpio man doesn’t like you, he’ll have no problem flirting with other people in front of you.

A Scorpio man won’t flirt with other people in front of the object of his affections. He wants to make sure they know he’s interested in them.

Are Scorpio men flirts? Many are. They often stop when they’re actively interested in one person, though.

He’s not interested when he openly flirts with other people. His disinterest will be especially obvious if he never flirts with you.

If he seems interested, he may be flirting with others to make you jealous. He might also be mad at you. Again, there is a problem with your relationship if he’s doing this.

9. He Gives You Hints

A Scorpio man might try to drop hints that he’s not interested in you. If he’s not interested in you romantically but wants to be friends, these hints will be more subtle and gentle.

One way he’ll drop hints is by telling you about people he is interested in.

He might also make off-hand statements about the type of people he doesn’t date. He may say he doesn’t like a particular trait in a romantic partner. It will be a trait that you possess.

His hints will be less subtle and ruder if he doesn’t like you. A Scorpio man might tell his friends he doesn’t like you, hoping it will get back to you through the grapevine.

A Scorpio man might eventually tell you outright that he’s not interested. He doesn’t always want to do this, but he will if you’re not getting the hint.

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10. He Picks Fights

It’s best to move on from a Scorpio man if he’s constantly picking fights with you. Starting arguments is one way he shows he’s not interested.

Even when a Scorpio man is angry, he doesn’t often pick fights. He typically prefers to ignore the problem until it goes away. The silent treatment is his go-to when he’s mad at someone.

A Scorpio man might constantly be insulting you if he’s not interested. He’ll pick fights over little things.

He’ll make judgemental comments here and there too. A Scorpio man will have no problem criticizing you to your face. He’ll double down if you try to call him out. He won’t apologize if you get upset.

Scorpio men don’t always like being confrontational. He will usually only do this as a last resort. If you are not getting the hint that he’s not interested, he’ll do what he can to drive you away.