Keys to Talking About Feelings With an Aquarius Man

The best way to get an Aquarius man to open up to you is to build a strong friendship with him.

Even if you two are dating, being friends is just as important as being romantic partners.

An Aquarius man won’t want to talk about feelings if he doesn’t trust you. You need to do what you can to show him he can place his trust in you.

Be open-minded and don’t judge him when he does trust you with his feelings. You want him to feel comfortable talking to you.

Be His Friend

Before you can pursue any sort of relationship with an Aquarius man, you should first be his friend.

Any relationship with an Aquarius man needs to be built on a foundation of trust and friendship. He’s more likely to open up to his partner when they are also his best friend.

If you are trying to pursue a romantic relationship with an Aquarius, that shouldn’t get in the way of your friendship. Don’t stop being friends just because you want to have something more with him.

The way an Aquarius man acts when he likes you makes his feelings pretty obvious. He’ll be far more affectionate with you than he is with his friends.

If he isn’t yet comfortable opening up to you about his romantic feelings, just keep being his friend. Show him that you value your friendship and that you care about him.

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Intellectual Conversations

Sometimes, what an Aquarius man wants to hear are your intellectual thoughts. He doesn’t often like talking about his feelings.

If he seems upset or stressed out, the last thing he may want to do is talk about what’s going on.

If he’s not in the mood to talk about feelings, don’t push it! Talk to him about something else.

Instead of approaching him about his emotions, strike up a conversation about something intellectually stimulating to him.

An intelligent conversation can sometimes take his mind off his negative emotions and put him into a better headspace.

Once he’s feeling better, he might be willing to open up to you about what is wrong. He’ll also feel more comfortable doing so because he knows you won’t force him to talk about anything he isn’t ready to.

Give Him Space

If you think an Aquarius man is denying his feelings, don’t make a big deal out of it. Just give him the space he needs to come to terms with those feelings.

Aquarius men don’t like to feel stifled. They don’t like it when people try to control them or force them to talk about things when they’re not ready to.

You might be somebody who enjoys talking about your feelings. You might want to talk about them often. It might be frustrating when he doesn’t want to talk about how he feels.

Don’t force the issue. If he wants space, give it to him. If he wants to be alone with his feelings, leave him alone.

When an Aquarius man ignores you, try to give him attention first and if that doesn’t work, just let him be. Don’t be pushy with him.

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Surprise Him

If you need to get something off your chest to an Aquarius man, the best thing to do is just to start talking about it without preamble.

Don’t send an Aquarius man a “we need to talk text”. He might just avoid you so he doesn’t have to deal with whatever you want to talk about.

Instead, just bring up the issue when you see him. You’ll want to do this in person because he can easily ignore a text.

He’ll be more receptive to talking about feelings when you’re talking about your feelings. He won’t get angry about you bringing them up out of the blue.

The surprise tactic should only be used when you’re talking about how you feel, though. Don’t try to trick him into talking about his feelings if he doesn’t want to.

Understand Him

You need to understand that an Aquarius man is scared of feelings sometimes. Once you understand this and can sympathize, it’ll be easier to get close to an Aquarius man.

An Aquarius man wants to feel understood. He knows that he isn’t always the best at talking about how he feels and he knows that this can bother some people.

Let him know that it doesn’t bother you. Let him know that you understand him and that you accept him as he is.

Get to know him. Learn as much as you can about him. When he sees you’re making an effort, he’ll be more likely to open up to you.

When you take the time to get to know him, it’ll be easier to talk to him about feelings. It’ll also be easier to spot any signs an Aquarius man is interested in you.

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Be Open-Minded

You might have a specific way you like to discuss feelings with other people. An Aquarius man won’t necessarily have the same habits that you do when it comes to talking about emotions, though.

Even if you two are very close, he’s not always going to want to discuss things with you. You need to be okay with that.

An Aquarius man in love won’t always want to talk about his feelings. You may need to be open-minded and accept the way he expresses himself, even if it’s not the way you would express emotions.

Sometimes, talking about his feelings isn’t the best way for him to get things off his chest. He might need to do something to take his mind off his feelings. That’s okay. He doesn’t need to talk to you about everything.

Listen to Him

It can be difficult learning how to read an Aquarius man. You won’t always be able to tell what he’s thinking unless he tells you.

When he’s talking to you about anything, make sure you listen to him! You want him to know that you care about what he says.

You need to listen to an Aquarius man when he’s talking to you, regardless of what the subject is. He doesn’t want to feel like he’s talking to a wall.

You want to show him that you are actively invested in the things he cares about. You want him to know that you’re always listening when he talks to you.

When you show him that you’re willing to listen to him, even if he’s talking about something you don’t necessarily care about, he’ll be more likely to open up to you.

If you listen to him, he’ll reciprocate and listen to you when you need to talk about your feelings.

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Be Trustworthy

When an Aquarius man has a crush on you, he might hold off on telling you until he knows he can trust you with his feelings.

Do anything you can to show him that you’re trustworthy and he will eventually come to you when he needs to talk about feelings.

You can show him that you’re a trustworthy person by avoiding gossip. Don’t spill the secrets of others to him. That will show him you might spill his secrets.

Always be honest with him. Never let him catch you in a lie. That will only ensure that he doesn’t trust you.

As he gets to know you better and he sees that you’re somebody he can trust, it will be easier to talk about feelings with him.

Don’t Judge

What an Aquarius man needs more than anything is for you to be non-judgemental when it comes to his feelings and how he expresses them.

He knows he doesn’t always express his emotions the way people would like him to. He knows that he hides how he feels.

You don’t need to frame the way he expresses (or doesn’t express) emotions as a flaw. You shouldn’t criticize him for that.

If he has a hard time talking about his feelings at first, don’t be critical of him. That will just make him clam up and not want to share his feelings with you.

When he sees that you won’t judge him, regardless of what he says or does, he’ll be more likely to open up to you.

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Mature Conversation

If you want to talk about your feelings with an Aquarius man, you need to do so in a mature manner.

He doesn’t handle extreme displays of emotion well. If you’re angry with him and need to express that, wait until you’ve calmed down and can discuss it with him calmly and maturely.

Show him that you can talk about feelings in the same way you can have an intellectual discussion.

You don’t need to have a breakdown to express how you feel when you’re upset. Try to be calm about it. If you can’t be, wait until later to talk about things.