10 Surefire Techniques to Hurt a Sagittarius Man (Beware)

If you aren’t close with a Sagittarius man, it will be more difficult to hurt him. He can easily brush off criticism or hurtful comments from someone he doesn’t care about.

If he loves you, many things can hurt his feelings. Your Sagittarius man will be upset if you lie to him or try to manipulate him. Criticism and insults can bruise his ego when he cares about your opinion.

Anything that crosses a Sagittarius man’s boundaries will hurt him. If you show that you don’t care about his feelings, your actions will hurt even more.

1. Hurt His Ego

A Sagittarius man’s ego might not be as large as a Leo man’s, but he certainly has one. He prefers it when the people around him actively try to feed it.

Sagittarius men love hearing compliments from their loved ones. They like knowing that their talents and actions don’t go unnoticed.

If you want to hurt a Sagittarius man, go for his ego. Pick at his weak spots until you’ve torn his ego down.

You can weaken a Sagittarius man’s ego by ignoring his successes. Don’t comment on it if he shows you something he’s proud of.

Sagittarius men need attention and acknowledgment, whether they like it or not. Your Sagittarius man’s ego will be hurt if you refuse to give him the attention he wants.

Refusing to acknowledge anything good a Sagittarius man does will also hurt his ego. He’ll feel terrible when his good deeds go unnoticed by the people around him.

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2. Lie To Him

What hurts a Sagittarius man? One thing that will hurt his feelings is when somebody he loves lies to him.

Sagittarius men trust the people in their lives to tell them the trust. A Sagittarius man hates nothing more than when his friends or partners are dishonest with him.

If you lie to your Sagittarius man about who you’re going out with, he’ll become suspicious of you.

He usually doesn’t care about his partner doing things without him, but if you’re always lying, he might become convinced that you’re doing something you’re not supposed to be.

A Sagittarius man may also think that you don’t trust him if you always lie to him or keep things from him. If you two are in a relationship, that will upset him a lot.

3. Manipulate Him

Sagittarius men hate being manipulated. They need a lot of control over their own lives. When someone can manipulate him, a Sagittarius man feels like he’s lost control.

You’ll likely know how to manipulate a Sagittarius man if you two know one another well. You will know what to say and do to elicit specific reactions out of him.

Make your Sagittarius man doubt himself. Argue with him about his recollection of conversations the two of you have had. If you insulted him, make him question whether or not he simply misunderstood what you said.

You can also hurt a Sagittarius man by guilt-tripping him. He will become agitated if you constantly remind him of past mistakes or things he’s done to hurt you.

You can probably toy with a Sagittarius man’s emotions and manipulate him into doing what you want if you try. You’ll hurt him deeply when he realizes what you’re doing.

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4. Let Him Down

If a Sagittarius man relies on you for something and you don’t follow through, he’ll be upset.

Sagittarius men understand that things come up. Your Sagittarius man isn’t going to become distraught because you had an emergency and couldn’t make it to one date.

However, your Sagittarius man will become upset if you constantly let him down. If he thinks he can rely on you and you show him he can’t, he’ll be hurt.

Sagittarius men do not trust easily. They hate having to rely on people as well. A Sagittarius man trusting you and depending on you is a huge deal for him.

Your Sagittarius man will be hurt if you never show up on time or if you constantly cancel plans last minute. If you say you’ll help with something and then don’t follow through, he’ll be upset because he thought he could trust you.

5. Don’t Support Him

What does a Sagittarius man do when hurt? One thing he might do is go to his loved ones for support. He’ll become even more upset if you don’t give him that support.

If you blow off your Sagittarius man when he’s hurt, you are telling him that you don’t care about him. If you refuse to offer emotional support or try to cheer him up, he’ll feel like you don’t love him.

Sagittarius men don’t often have a lot of people they can go to for emotional support. Most of the time, they only trust their partner and a couple of close friends to support them in hard times.

When your Sagittarius man considers you to be someone he can go to for support, he’ll be distraught if you show him he was mistaken in thinking that.

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6. Spill His Secrets

One of the easiest ways to hurt a Sagittarius man is to betray his trust. If he tells you something privately, you need to keep it to yourself. You’ll hurt him if you tell others his secrets.

Sagittarius men hate being the subject of gossip. It hurts their egos and their feelings! Your Sagittarius man will be extremely hurt if you tell everyone things he’s told you in strict confidence.

You’ll likely make a Sagittarius man lose all trust in you if you constantly tell other people his secrets. You need to beware if you do this. He might never trust you with anything again.

How does a Sagittarius man handle betrayal? Be careful if you do something that your Sagittarius man considers a betrayal. He might never forgive you.

7. Constantly Criticize Him

If a Sagittarius man is upset already, you can further hurt him with constant criticisms. If he cares about your opinion, he’ll feel terrible if you always judge him.

A Sagittarius man dislikes it when people criticize him all the time. He might be able to handle some constructive criticism, especially if he asks for it, but he doesn’t want to be insulted constantly.

Your Sagittarius man will be especially hurt if you criticize something he’s proud of. He’ll be terribly upset if he shows you something he’s created and you insult it.

Sagittarius men might act like insults don’t phase them, but that couldn’t be further from the truth! If a Sagittarius man loves and trusts you, he’ll be deeply affected by anything negative you say about him.

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8. Call Him Shallow

Being called shallow is one thing a Sagittarius man hates more than anything.

Many Sagittarius men can genuinely be shallow, but they don’t think of themselves that way. This is a quick way to upset a Sagittarius man if you two are arguing.

Sagittarius men like to think of themselves as good friends and partners. They often consider themselves to be generous and caring. This isn’t always true, though.

If you call a Sagittarius man shallow or selfish, he’ll be highly offended. That’s not how he thinks of himself at all.

Give your Sagittarius man specific examples of why you think he’s shallow. He often won’t be able to handle that. Sagittarius men hate being confronted with their faults.

9. Hide Your Intentions

A Sagittarius man’s communication style is direct and to the point. He expects the people in his life to be straightforward with him too.

If you hide your intentions from your Sagittarius man, he’ll become upset. He will hate feeling used or like you’ve been lying to him from the very beginning.

A Sagittarius man won’t ever get upset when you are upfront about your intentions. If all you want is sex out of your relationship, tell him that. He’ll only become upset if you try to hide your true intentions.

A Sagittarius man doesn’t want to fall in love with you if you don’t take your relationship seriously. If you pretend like you have feelings for him when you don’t, he’ll be devastated when he learns the truth.

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10. Insult His Friends

What happens when a Sagittarius is hurt? He might try to hide it. He’ll have a harder time hiding his feelings if he’s upset because you’ve insulted his friends.

A Sagittarius man’s friends are important to him. He might have a hard time dating someone who doesn’t like the people he cares about most.

Your Sagittarius man will feel like you don’t respect him if you always badmouth his friends in front of him. He wouldn’t let them badmouth you! He doesn’t want you to say anything negative about them either.

A Sagittarius man will be hurt when his partner and friends don’t like one another. He may feel caught between them. This will cause a lot of problems for him and hurt his feelings.