What to Expect From a Libra Man After He Breaks Up

Sometimes when a Libra man breaks up with you, he’ll quickly realize he’s made a mistake. Don’t be too surprised if he calls you the next day to apologize.

If he broke up with you for a good reason, don’t expect to hear from him. He would rather handle his emotions on his own and take some time for self-care.

If he does reach out to you when he’s truly done, it might be to talk things over. This isn’t so he can get back together with you. This is so he can avoid the same mistakes in the future.

Reasons for Breakup

When a Libra man wants to break up with someone, he can sometimes take a while to follow through with it.

Libra men are indecisive. The decision to break up is a big one! He usually wants to make sure that he is making the right decision.

If you’ve done something to deeply hurt or betray him, he might break up with you quickly without a second thought.

On the opposite end of the spectrum, some Libra men might make brash decisions in the heat of the moment. If you two have a huge argument, he might end the relationship suddenly.

Other times, he’ll spend weeks agonizing over whether or not he should break up with you.

How does a Libra man break up with you? This depends on why he wants to break up.

If the breakup is a planned one, he will often be nice about it. He will invite you over so that you two can talk privately. If he wants the breakup to be an amicable one, he’ll be as kind and polite as possible.

If he breaks up with you suddenly, he might show a rare display of emotion. This is especially true if you did something like cheat on him.

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Reflects on Relationship

If a Libra man reaches out after a breakup, it might be because he wants to reflect on what went wrong in the relationship.

Even if he broke up with you, he’ll know that he likely played a part in why the relationship went sour.

You two might have just not clicked. He’ll reflect on why this was. Did you two have different values? Did you have differing ideas about what a relationship was that ended up being incompatible?

If you cheated on him or did something else to seriously hurt him, he might wonder what he did to lead you to that point.

Libra men are not the type to stick to old patterns. If a relationship didn’t work out, he knows it was for a reason. He wants to find that reason so that he can have a successful relationship in the future.

Learns From Mistakes

Libra men try to learn from their mistakes. This is one of the ways they achieve balance and harmony in their lives.

He doesn’t want to make the same mistake twice in a relationship.

If you two ended up having different values that just didn’t match up, he’ll try to be more careful in the future to find somebody who has the same values as him.

If you two had conflicting personalities, he will likely try to avoid people who are similar to you. Sometimes, people just don’t get along.

When he was in the wrong in some ways, he’ll try to work on himself to avoid making those mistakes as well.

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He’s Logical

Even when a Libra man wants you back following a breakup, he might not reach out to you.

If the relationship ended for a good reason, he knows it.

He will of course right his wrong if he broke up with you during an argument. He may regret his actions. Once he’s got his wits about him again and he’s calm, he will likely reach out.

If he carefully considered the decision, though, he will try to trust that he made the right decision.

When Libra men do decide on something, they often stick with it. Even if he misses being in a relationship, he will know that it’s likely to just end up in heartbreak a second time.

He’s Unemotional

Even when a Libra man is heartbroken, the people around him aren’t likely to know it.

A Libra man’s emotional distance after a breakup is one way he keeps himself safe. He often doesn’t want to deal with his feelings. He doesn’t want to fully feel the heart after a breakup.

He will avoid things that remind him of you. He doesn’t want anything to make him feel nostalgic. He doesn’t want to suddenly have to face his emotions.

He is not likely to reach out to friends for comfort, at least not right away. He’s more likely to deal with things himself.

He’ll quickly do things like list himself as single on social media if he was listed as being in a relationship. He may seem cold in the way he handles things. He acts like this because he is trying to keep himself from feeling even more hurt.

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Might Come Back

Will a Libra man come back after a breakup? Some of them will, depending on the reason the relationship ended.

He won’t always come back in a romantic capacity. If you two just ended up being incompatible as partners but he still likes interacting with you, he’ll try to remain your friend.

After he’s had some time to deal with his feelings following a breakup, he might reach out. He’ll ask to hang out just as friends.

If he thinks he made the wrong decision or if he broke up with you in the heat of the moment, he might also reach out to apologize and ask for another chance.

You will know when a Libra man is done with you because he won’t even try to stay friends with you. If you hurt him deeply, he will avoid you completely.

Works On Himself

Libra men often try to improve themselves after a break-up, whether they initiated it or not.

Even if you did something wrong that caused him to break up with you, he might still shoulder some of the blame.

He may also just feel better about himself if he starts to develop new habits or dive into a new hobby.

He might start going to the gym more. This can help keep his mind off things if he’s feeling heartbroken.

It can also help get him in shape for when he’s ready to start dating again. He likes to look good for the people he’s trying to woo, after all.

If he thinks a certain habit of his lead to you two drifting apart, he may try to break that habit. If you were constantly annoyed by something he did, he may try to “fix” whatever that is.

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Keeps Busy

When a Libra man goes quiet after a breakup, it’s often because he’s keeping himself busy.

He loves to socialize. Even if he is emotionally distancing himself from people, he’ll still crave human contact.

He’ll often keep himself busy attending events, hanging out with friends, and doing other things that involve interacting with people.

He will keep himself busy with self-care as well. He’ll indulge himself in a trip to the spa or a few nights out on the town with his friends.

He may keep himself busy by taking up a new hobby or learning something new. He loves to gain knowledge. It gives him something interesting to talk about with other people.

He may also start dating around. He may not necessarily be ready for a new relationship but he does love the idea of romance.

Spends Time With Friends

Leaving a Libra man alone after a breakup is usually the best idea. If he wants to connect with people, he’ll reach out to his friends.

He may feel lonely without his partner, especially if they were together for a long time or if they lived together.

He won’t want to spend too much time by himself. He won’t want to talk to you, at least not right away. He will want to spend time with his friends.

He won’t always confide in them about his feelings. Just being around them will be what he needs to feel better.

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Goes Shopping

Libra men love to indulge themselves. They are similar to Taurus men in this way. If he’s feeling down, he might go shopping to get some material goods to cheer himself up.

He may get a new wardrobe so that he can reinvent himself. He might get some items he can use for that new hobby he’s picked up.

Shopping is another way to interact with other people. It’s an activity he can do in a group. Even if he’s alone, there will be other people around.

Having shiny new things won’t necessarily fix all his problems. He’ll need time to get over a breakup. Treating himself will lift his spirits at least a bit, though.