10 Obvious Signs Virgo Man is Not Interested (in You)

A Virgo man will not feign interest for the sake of being polite or keeping the peace, but he also won’t be directly confrontational when he’s not interested in someone. He’ll give you a lot of hints.

When a Virgo man isn’t interested, he won’t seek you out. He will not start conversations, offer to help you out, or approach you at parties.

If you ask a Virgo man out and he’s not interested, he’ll let you down gently. He will be firm and direct but not cruel. He’ll avoid you if you don’t confront him, though.

1. He Won’t Look Your Way

If you aren’t sure how to tell if a Virgo is not interested, pay attention to whether or not his gaze is on you when you two are together.

A Virgo man’s stare isn’t as intense as a Scorpio man’s, but it’s close! If he likes someone, he won’t be able to take his eyes off them.

When you two are in a group together, does your Virgo man look over at you, or does he avoid your gaze? If he never makes eye contact with you, even when you’re speaking, he’s likely not interested in you.

If a Virgo man likes you, he’ll look at you across the room. He will notice when you arrive at a party. He’ll never bother to look your way if he’s not interested, even if he does see you.

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2. Won’t Start Conversations

Mercury, the planet of communication, rules Virgo. They love to talk! A Virgo man will often show interest in someone by initiating conversations.

If a Virgo man isn’t interested in you, he won’t strike up conversations with you. He will not ask you questions or do anything to get to know you better.

Virgo men don’t tend to like small talk, so a Virgo man will likely avoid you instead of making any with you.

If you notice that you are always the one to approach your Virgo man when you see him at a party or in public, he might not be interested.

When a Virgo man notices you and doesn’t come over to say hi, he probably doesn’t like you. He won’t text you either.

If it’s necessary to talk to you for some reason, he’ll get things over with quickly and won’t say anything more than he has to.

3. He’ll Seem Bored Around You

When a Virgo man isn’t interested in you, being with you won’t be exciting for him. He will likely act bored any time he has to interact with you.

If he used to be interested, but a Virgo man is not interested anymore, he’ll suddenly seem bored whenever you’re around.

A Virgo coworker might have to talk to you now and then. It will be unavoidable. He won’t seem interested when you two talk, though.

The same goes for a Virgo man who sometimes has to interact with you because you two have mutual friends. He might be polite, but he won’t seem happy to chat with you.

When a Virgo man isn’t interested in you, he might ignore what you’re saying. His mind will be elsewhere. He’ll reply with single-word responses and won’t attempt to keep the conversation going.

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4. He Never Offers Help

One of the signs a Virgo man is not interested anymore is that he’ll stop offering to help you out with things.

Virgo men often show their affection for people by helping them with chores, errands, projects, etc. If your Virgo man has lost interest, he’ll stop offering his help.

You will likely never see the helpful side of a Virgo man who’s never been interested in you.

Virgo men can be very giving and generous. They are nurturing people who genuinely want to help the people they care about. He will not extend this generosity to you if he’s not interested.

If you ask a Virgo man to help with something, he might always have some excuse for why he can’t. That is a sure sign that he’s not interested in being around you.

5. His Schedule Is Always Full

If a Virgo man is not interested in you, you might notice that his schedule is constantly full. No matter how much you try to make plans with him, he’ll never be available.

Virgo men are often genuinely busy. They are hard-working people who have a lot going on.

When a Virgo man likes you, he’ll make an effort to schedule time for you. He’ll be forthcoming about when he’s available and work things out so that he can spend time with you.

A Virgo man who isn’t interested might lie and say he’s busy even when he’s not. He will not offer any possible times for you two to hang out.

If a Virgo man is honestly busy for the next few days or weeks, he will let you know when his schedule is free. He will try to make time for you. He won’t if he’s not interested.

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6. He Avoids You

Is your Virgo man shy or not interested? He’ll likely respond when you approach him and try to strike up a conversation if he’s just shy. If he’s not interested or doesn’t like you, he’ll avoid you as much as possible.

You might notice that a Virgo man suddenly stops talking if you two are in a group chat and you start talking. He might reply to everyone but you.

When you see a Virgo man at a party, he might walk off in the other direction or try to appear busy. If he was interested, he would say hi and try to interact with you!

It will be very obvious that a Virgo man is avoiding you. If he sees you in public, he might pretend like he doesn’t notice you’re there. If he doesn’t like you, he might even go into another room when he sees you.

7. Never Offers Feedback

Virgo men tend to be overly critical and judgemental. Oddly enough, one of the signs Virgo man is not interested in you is that he won’t make critical comments to you.

Many Virgo men make critical comments about the people around them because they are genuinely trying to help. They think they’re offering constructive criticism that helps their loved ones do better.

He likely won’t pay enough attention to you to notice anything about you. If he’s not interested or doesn’t like you, he won’t want to offer you any helpful criticism. He likely won’t talk to you enough to do so anyway.

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8. Ignores Your Messages

How do you keep a Virgo man interested? There’s no one way to ensure he stays interested, but remaining independent will help. Don’t cling to him too much or constantly message him.

Virgo men might not always respond right away, but they are good about responding to messages. A Virgo man won’t leave you on read or completely ignore your texts if he’s interested.

You’ll know he’s not interested in you because he won’t make any effort to reply to your messages. He will only respond to you if he has to and won’t bother outside of that.

9. He’ll Be Direct If You Ask

How do you know if a Virgo man is not interested? If you ask him directly, he’ll be honest with you.

Virgo men are honest to a fault. A Virgo man is unlikely to pretend that he’s interested if you ask him out. He will be direct and tell you that he’s not interested.

If you want to know for sure whether your Virgo man is interested or not, just ask him. You might not get the answer you’re looking for, but it’s better to know so that you can move on!

A Virgo man will also be direct if friends ask about you. He will just say that he’s not interested in you. He won’t lie to them, even if he thinks it will get back to you.

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10. He’ll Let You Down Gently

Just because a Virgo man is not into you, that doesn’t mean he’ll be rude to you. A Virgo man will often let you down gently.

When a Virgo man is not interested anymore, he might start dropping hints first. If you aren’t getting those hints, he will eventually just tell you outright. He’ll try to be nice about it, though.

Virgo men aren’t trying to be cruel. A Virgo man might ignore you or avoid you if he’s not interested, but he’s not doing that to be rude. He doesn’t want to waste your time or give you false hope.

If you ask a Virgo man out and he’s not interested, he’ll be nice about turning you down. He won’t try to hurt your feelings, even if he’s telling you no.