Should You Chase a Libra Man? Does He (Really) Like It?

Do Libra men like being chased? It’s not easy to definitively say yes or no. Libra is a sign that is all about balance. He won’t like being chased constantly. He’ll want to do the chasing sometimes.

If you are pursuing a Libra man, give him time to respond to your efforts. Chase him a bit. Make it obvious you like him. Then back off and give him a chance to take over.

A Libra man wants to know that you’re interested. This will soothe any insecurities. He just also wants control sometimes.

Balanced

Libra men like to achieve balance in all areas of their life. He will feel stressed out if anything seems off-balance.

He’s not particularly tied to either the idea of being chased or being the one to chase after somebody. He likes to have a little bit of both when he’s in the early stages of dating somebody.

A Libra man is a romantic. He will enjoy wooing you. He’ll love giving you gifts, showing you affection, and taking you out on nice dates.

He also wants to feel like you’re trying to romance him as well. He doesn’t want it to be a one-sided thing.

If he feels like he likes you more than you like him (or vice versa), he might start to doubt the potential relationship you two could have. He needs things to be balanced to feel comfortable.

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Equal Partnership

Libra men desire equal partnerships where neither partner is more dominant over the other.

Sometimes, he will be in control of things. Other times, his partner will be. This is exactly what he wants.

When you are in the “chasing” phase of your relationship, he still wants things to be equal.

Your Libra man wants to feel like you two are on the same page. If he is always going after you, he might feel like you’re not as serious about the relationship.

If you are always going after him and never giving him a chance to pursue you, he might feel like you are too domineering. He might also feel pressured to move faster than he wants to at the moment.

Chase after him. Just also give him the chance to chase after you just as much.

Back-and-Forth

How can you tell if a Libra man is interested in you? He’ll take turns with you when it comes to chasing after one another.

When you two go on dates, he’ll pay sometimes. You should also pay other times. It’s generally best to have whoever initiated the date pay for things or for you two to split things evenly.

He likes having this back-and-forth in a relationship. He doesn’t always want to be the one taking charge or handling things. He also doesn’t want to make you put in all the effort.

If you start chasing after him and he doesn’t make an effort to also pursue you, that’s a sign a Libra man isn’t that interested in you. He might not be ready for a relationship at the moment.

Be the one to message him first sometimes. Other times, wait until he reaches out to you. This will make him feel like you two are on the same page about things.

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Needs Reassurance

One of the signs a Libra man has feelings for you is that he’ll try to get reassurance of your feelings for him.

When you do things to actively pursue a relationship with him, he will start to feel secure in your feelings for him.

If he’s been chasing after you and you’re making him do all the work, he’s likely to back off. He may start to doubt your affections. He might start to think you’re not interested in him.

Your Libra man will feel reassured when you also make an effort to woo him. If he took you out on an extravagant first date, reach out and offer to plan the second date.

If you care about him, let him know. This will also reassure him.

Don’t Overwhelm Him

Most of the time, you won’t need to look for hidden signs a Libra man is flirting with you. He’s pretty obvious about it.

If he’s not being openly affectionate, romantic, and flirtatious with you, try to match his energy. You don’t want to come on too strong.

If you know he likes you but he’s not actively wooing you or flirting with you constantly, there’s likely a good reason behind that.

Perhaps he just got out of a relationship and he doesn’t want to get into another one too quickly. Maybe he’s wary because he’s been hurt in the past.

Don’t overwhelm your Libra man in your attempts to chase after him. Give him time to react when you express interest in him.

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Give Him Space

Sometimes, your Libra man needs time to think. He might be unsure about a potential relationship with you, no matter how much he likes you.

If he just got out of a relationship, he might be reluctant to jump into another one. If he’s been hurt before, he might need some time before he considers dating you.

When this happens, you need to give him some space. Stop chasing after him and actively pursuing him. Give him time to react to your attempts at wooing him.

If he likes you, he’ll seek you out. You won’t need to give him too much space because he’ll want to spend time with you.

Back Off Sometimes

Does a Libra man like to be chased? He does sometimes. You shouldn’t constantly pursue him, though.

If you want to know how to tell if a Libra man is not interested in you, pay attention to how he reacts when you back off. When he likes somebody, he wants to spend a lot of time with them.

If you back off and he likes you, he’ll chase after you. He’ll take the initiative when it comes to messaging you or asking you to spend some time with him.

If he doesn’t like you, he’ll just let you back off. He won’t chase after you.

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Go At His Pace

Sometimes when a Libra man has a crush on you, he’ll dive right into a relationship once you show interest in him. Other times, he’ll take his time.

If he’s taking his time, it’s likely because he’s been burnt in the past by moving too quickly.

If you’re looking for signs a Libra man likes you as more than a friend, you often don’t need to look too hard. He’ll make it clear if his feelings for you are romantic.

When he’s expressing interest in you, it’s usually only a matter of time before he starts to get more serious about you.

If he’s happy with heating things up quickly, great! If not, let him take things slowly. He’ll appreciate it. He’ll feel like you care about him and like you respect his boundaries.

Don’t Intimidate Him

A Libra man isn’t a domineering person. He is fine giving up control to the people around him sometimes. It’s nice to have somebody else make the effort to do things sometimes.

You should try not to come on too strong, though. If you are constantly chasing after him, he might start to feel intimidated by your actions.

If you always message him first and never give him the chance to initiate a conversation, he might start to feel like you’re domineering.

Don’t always take over the conversation when you two talk. He likes to talk! He’ll take over sometimes.

When a Libra man is unsure about his feelings, he’ll need time to process them. He will need time to think about how he wants to respond to your attempts to woo him.

Don’t be overbearing. Chase after him a bit but give him the chance to respond. If he doesn’t respond the way you want him to, you need to be okay with that. Don’t keep chasing after somebody who doesn’t want you to chase him.

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Be Patient

If a Libra man likes you, he is usually obvious about it. He’ll be openly affectionate. He’ll flirt with you. He’ll want to spend a lot of time with you.

If he’s showing interest in you but he hasn’t asked you out yet, just be patient.

Libra men are indecisive at the best of times. This is the most common stereotype about Libras and it is a true one much of the time.

He might be unsure about a relationship with you for one reason or another. If he is, you need to give him time to decide if he wants to start something up with you or not.

Just continue to show him that you’re interested. Respect his boundaries. Show him care and compassion. If he sees how much you care about his feelings, he’ll be more likely to make a move.