Commitment isn’t always easy for a Gemini man. He might be afraid of commitment but when he’s ready to commit, he’s all in.
You’ll usually be able to tell right away when he’s serious about you and your relationship.
The first thing a Gemini man will do when he’s ready to commit to somebody is break off any other casual relationships he was in. He’ll make it very clear that he’s ready to date you and only you.
He’ll also start incorporating you into his life more. You’ll get invited to hang out with his friends.
He’ll bring you to his cousin’s wedding and introduce you to his family. He’ll even bring you to work parties.
When a Gemini man is serious about you, he’ll want the whole world to know it too.
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1. You Meet His Family
If a Gemini man is in a relationship he considers serious, he’s going to want to take his partner to meet his family.
His idea of family might not necessarily be his parents or siblings but he’ll take you to meet the people who are important in his life.
If he takes you to a family event like a wedding or a holiday dinner, he’s serious about you. This often means he’s ready to be exclusive with you or that he’s ready to settle down.
He doesn’t take every person he dates home to meet his parents (or whoever he considers family). He saves that for people he’s seriously considering committing to.
If he asks you to come to meet his family, you should know that is a huge step for him. You should try to go to any family events he invites you to because this is a sign he’s serious about your relationship.
2. Deletes Dating Apps
If he deletes his dating apps off his phone, that’s one of the signs a Gemini man is serious about you. He’ll only do that when he’s planning on being exclusive with you.
Gemini men don’t stop dating around until they have actually committed to being exclusive to somebody.
Until you’ve had that “relationship talk” and decided to date only one another, assume he’s at least talking to other people.
If you notice that all his dating apps are gone and that he isn’t chatting with other people the same way he used to, that’s a definite sign that he is ready to commit to you.
Even if you haven’t had that talk yet, when he stops actively seeking out other people to date and talk to, that means the talk is coming up very soon.
3. Cuts Back on Flirting
Are Gemini men loyal? Once he’s decided to commit to you and be exclusive, yes! He is perfectly capable of being a loyal, faithful partner.
One of the signs a Gemini man likes you is that he’ll cut back on flirting with other people. Even if he does flirt with others now and then, it won’t be serious and he won’t do it when you’re around.
Gemini men are flirts. They think it’s fun and most of the time, it’s harmless. If he knows that it bothers you, though, he’ll stop flirting with other people as a way to show he’s serious about your relationship.
If you notice that he no longer playfully flirts with friends of his when you’re around, that means he’s getting ready to commit to you.
It’ll be harder to tell if he’s flirting when you’re not around but you’ll not see as many flirty comments on social media when he’s serious about you.
4. Talks About Commitment
If a Gemini man starts talking about commitment, even hypothetically, he’s ready to be in a serious relationship with you.
He’s not going to bring up commitment if it’s not on his mind. He’s not going to want to talk about it unless he’s ready to actually commit.
If he starts slipping that word into conversations, pay attention! He might be gearing up to ask you to be in an exclusive relationship.
If you two are already in an exclusive relationship and he starts suddenly talking about commitment, that might also mean he’s ready for marriage.
He may start bringing up the idea slowly at first just to see how you’ll react. He doesn’t want to overwhelm you, after all.
If you’re not ready for a commitment, he doesn’t want to be rejected. If he starts bringing up commitment in your conversations, show him that you are ready and he’ll take that plunge with you.
5. Discusses the Future
One of the signs a Gemini man wants to marry you or bring your relationship to the next level is a pretty obvious one. If he starts talking about the future, that’s a sure sign he’s serious about your relationship.
He might start doing it in an off-hand way at first. He’ll discuss an event that’s a year or more out as if you’re going to be there with him.
He might ask if you plan on going to his family’s holiday party next year, for example. He might also mention that he’s planning a trip in a couple of years and ask if you’d like to come too.
He might start asking about your future plans. He’ll want to know what your career plans are. He’ll want to know how you feel about marriage or having kids.
He’ll also want to know if you plan on staying in the same city you’re in or if you’re open to moving around in the future. He’ll start to tell you his future plans and he’ll see how he fits into yours.
6. Talks About Feelings
When a Gemini man says I love you, he means it. He might over-compliment you or say insincere things now and then but he won’t say that unless he’s being sincere.
If he is being open with you about his feelings, that’s a sign he cares deeply about you. That’s a sign that he trusts you.
When he starts sharing things with you that he doesn’t share with anyone else, that means he’s planning on you being around for a long time.
He doesn’t share his whole self with just anyone. He saves some parts of himself for only the people he cares about most.
If he says he loves you, take that as a serious sign that he’s decided to settle down with you. He won’t say that unless he’s ready to commit.
7. More Affectionate
Some Gemini men are affectionate with everyone but a Gemini man in love is going to be more affectionate with you than he is with anyone else.
This one will be more obvious if you’re with a Gemini man who isn’t big on touching other people. If he generally avoids affection and he’s affectionate with you, that’s a sign he cares about you.
You’ll still be able to tell if he’s affectionate in general, though. He’ll be more affectionate with you and he’ll show his affection for you in different ways than he does with everyone else.
He’ll do things like hold your hand while you two are walking around. He’ll be sweeter and softer with his affections too.
He won’t just be physically affectionate either. He’ll show his affection for you by opening up more. He’ll be emotionally intimate with you in ways he isn’t with anyone else.
8. Open About Your Relationship
You’ll know your relationship with a Gemini man is on solid ground when he wants everyone to know about it.
If you two are just talking casually, he isn’t necessarily going to bring you to meet his friends. He’s not going to introduce you as his girlfriend. He might not even tell other people about you.
If he’s serious about you, though, he’ll make it obvious to everyone around you.
When he starts introducing you as his girlfriend, he’s definitely ready to commit to you.
He’ll talk about you openly on social media and bring you up often in conversations. He’ll want everyone to know about you!
9. Makes Plans
One sign a Gemini man is ready to commit is that he’ll start making solid plans with you related to the future.
He won’t just talk about things in the hypothetical. He’ll start planning things like moving in with you.
He’s a spontaneous person most of the time so when he sits down and plans something out, that’s a big deal!
10. Spends Time With You
Are Gemini men good boyfriends? That answer will depend on what you value in a relationship. They are often very attentive boyfriends, at the very least.
He’ll want to spend more one-on-one time with you when he cares about you. When he’s ready to commit, he may even bring up the idea of moving in together.
That’s a huge step for him. Gemini men like to socialize and they like to hang around with different people all the time.
If he’s spending more time with you than he does with anybody else, he cares about you deeply and he wants you around long-term.