Is Gemini Man Jealous and Possessive in a Relationship?

Gemini men are pretty optimistic in relationships. They want to see the best in their partner.

They aren’t going to assume their partner is cheating on them just because they’re talking to, or even flirting with, somebody else.

Gemini men also don’t like their emotions to get the best of them. No air sign does! He’ll try to ignore it even if he does start to feel jealous for some reason.

At the end of the day, Gemini men want their partners to have the same freedom that they crave. They won’t do anything to take away that freedom.

Values Freedom

Are Gemini men controlling in relationships? The majority of them aren’t. They value freedom far too much to try and control their partners.

Gemini men hate it when they feel like their freedom is being taken away in a relationship. Often, they are hesitant to get into a committed relationship because they don’t want to give up any of their freedom.

A Gemini man understands the need to be free and to be your own person outside of the relationship you’re in.

He’s not going to be possessive over you because he wants you to have the same freedom that he wants.

He’s not going to selfishly refuse to give up any of his freedom while denying you yours.

If you need to go out without him sometimes, that’s your right. If you want alone time, he’s going to give it to you. He expects that you’ll do the same for him.

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Hates Drama

If you want to know how to make Gemini man jealous, you’re honestly better off not even trying.

Gemini men hate being involved in drama. They might like to hear about other people’s drama but they don’t want any of it for themselves!

Even if you do make him jealous, he’s not going to act on that jealousy.

If you’re flirting with somebody else, he’s not going to make a big deal out of it. That would cause unnecessary drama, especially if you’re not even being serious when you flirt with other people.

If he thinks something is going on between you and somebody else, he’ll try to approach you about it in a calm way. He’s not going to blow up or act possessive over you in front of other people.

If he finds out you’re purposefully playing with his emotions, he’s more likely to get upset with you than anything else.

He’s a Flirt

Are Gemini men jealous? They often aren’t. Even if he does get jealous about you talking to another man, though, he’s likely not going to make a big deal out of it.

One reason for this is that he’s a flirt. He knows he’s a flirt too! He also knows it would be hypocritical of him to get mad at you for talking to other people.

He also knows that flirting is just fun sometimes. It can be entirely harmless. Flirting doesn’t necessarily lead to anything else.

When he flirts with other people, that doesn’t mean that he’s interested in being with them instead. He still loves you and wants to be with you.

If you flirt with somebody else, he’s going to assume you feel the same way. Instead of getting jealous, he’ll just trust that you’re having a little fun and that you’ll be coming back to him at the end of the day.

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Laid Back

You won’t always know when a Gemini man is jealous because of the laid back personality many Gemini men have.

A relationship with a Gemini man is stress-free in many ways.

You don’t have to worry about him stopping you from doing something you want to do. If you want to have a girl’s night or go somewhere without him, he’s not going to get upset about it.

He tries to take everything in stride. Even if you do something to make him jealous, he’ll try to just sit with those feelings instead of letting them make him angry.

If he does need to let out his emotions, he’ll try not to take them out on you. He’ll go for a run or do something creative to channel them instead.

Sets Aside Emotions

How does a Gemini man act when jealous? Most of the time, he tries not to act on his feelings of jealousy at all.

Gemini is an air sign. Air signs are known for detaching from their emotions. Even if they feel emotional, they don’t always want to acknowledge that.

He is capable of separating his thoughts and his emotions. He is capable of thinking rationally through his emotions.

While Gemini men are spontaneous, they don’t often act on their emotions without thinking about them first. This is especially true for “negative” emotions like jealousy.

If he thinks something will make the two of you happy, he’ll do it without thinking too hard about it. If he’s upset and he knows making a big deal about something will also upset you, though, he’s not going to act on his feelings.

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Rarely Insecure

Is a Gemini man insecure? He isn’t most of the time. Gemini men are usually fairly confident in themselves and their relationships.

If he’s in a committed relationship with you, that relationship is built on trust. He likely took a while to finally settle down with you.

You probably know him better than anyone else does. He might know you better than anyone else too. He knows this.

Gemini men usually feel secure in their relationships. He knows that, even if you flirt with somebody else or spend a lot of time with them, you still love him and want to be with him.

If he does get insecure, he’s not going to react to those feelings by getting angry with you. He’s not going to act jealous or possessive. He’ll try to do something positive to alleviate those feelings.

He’s Optimistic

A Gemini man in love is going to see the best in the person he loves.

If she’s talking to other men, he’s going to trust that she’s just being friendly. Even if she’s flirting with them, he won’t make a big deal out of it because he also flirts just to have harmless fun sometimes.

Are Gemini men loyal? Most of the time, they take their commitments seriously and will be loyal to their partners. Even if he flirts or gets friendly with other women sometimes, he’s a faithful partner.

He is going to assume that his partner is also loyal to him unless proven otherwise.

A Gemini man wants his relationship to be fun. He wants to be happy and he wants his partner to have a good time whenever they’re with him.

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He’s Social

If you’re off spending time with somebody else, a Gemini man isn’t likely to get jealous because he also has other people he can spend time with.

Gemini is a highly social sign. They love to interact with other people. They love to communicate.

He’s not going to feel possessive over your time. He doesn’t think that you should spend every waking moment with him. He’s likely to get bored and feel smothered if you two are always together.

He likely has lots of friends. If you’re busy, he’ll just go spend some time with them.

Values Independence

Are Gemini men possessive of their partners? They really aren’t. They like their independence and they want their partners to have their own independence as well.

He has friends and other people he wants to spend time with. He isn’t always going to want to hang out with you every day and that’s okay!

When you hang out with other people, he isn’t going to mind at all. He wants to spend time with other people so of course, he’s not going to care when you also want to spend time with other people.

Your relationship will actually be better if you two spend time apart sometimes. You shouldn’t be the only people in each other’s lives.

It’s a healthy thing for you two to have friends and to spend time with them apart from one another.

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Won’t Act Jealous

Everyone gets jealous sometimes. It’s a normal emotion and being jealous doesn’t make you a bad person.

The way you act on those feelings of jealousy is what really matters.

Most of the time, a Gemini man won’t take his jealousy out on his partner. He won’t get angry. He won’t demand that she stop talking to whoever it is he’s jealous over.

Some Gemini men will just ignore their emotions and hope they go away.

Others will try to deal with them constructively. He’ll work through them with art or by channeling that energy into another hobby of his.

At the end of the day, he knows being jealous and possessive isn’t going to do him any favors. He would rather let his partner be free and just enjoy the time he has with them.