Guide For When a Gemini Man is Giving Silent Treatment

Gemini men aren’t always good at responding to messages. They get caught up with other things and just forget.

If this has happened, he’ll usually respond eventually. Just reach out and he’ll likely apologize for missing your last message.

If he is ignoring you on purpose, he’ll do things like leave you on read, ignore you at parties, or avoid places he knows you’re going to be.

The best way to react is honestly not to react at all. Just go out and live your life until he’s ready to be more mature.

Is He Actually Ignoring You?

Before you react to a Gemini man’s “silent treatment”, you’ll want to make sure he’s actually giving you the silent treatment in the first place.

A Gemini man not texting back isn’t always a sign he’s ignoring you! He just gets busy sometimes. He can be spacey and forgetful as well.

Is he active on social media like he normally is? If not, something else is going on and he’s not giving you the silent treatment.

Is he talking in group chats and hanging out with your mutual friends? If he’s gone quiet overall, then his silence has nothing to do with you.

When a Gemini man goes quiet, it’s not always because you did something wrong. He’s not always actually ignoring you. Before you do anything, give it some time.

If he is talking to other people, going to parties, posting all over social media, etc., then you can assume that he is specifically ignoring you for some reason.

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Give Him Space

If a Gemini man is not responding to your messages, sometimes the best thing to do is give him space.

Sometimes reaching out is the best thing to do but other times, silence is what he needs.

He might not be giving you the silent treatment because of anything you did. He might just need space for one reason or another.

If something is wrong and he wants alone time, he’ll appreciate you giving it to him. He’ll likely come back with an explanation all on his own and you won’t need to bother him for one.

If nothing is wrong and he just forgot to reply to your message, he’ll also appreciate that you didn’t get mad at him for not responding. He just forgets sometimes!

If he’s giving you the silent treatment on purpose, giving him space will also show him that it isn’t an effective way to get your attention.

Ignore Him Back

If he’s ignoring you on purpose, a Gemini man will usually stop that right away if he realizes you’re ignoring him as well.

The silent treatment is something a Gemini man does to get a person’s attention.

If he’s angry with you, he’ll give you the silent treatment as a way of expressing that anger. He wants you to feel bad. He wants you to come to him with an apology.

If he’s playing hard to get, he’s also trying to get your attention but for different reasons. He wants you to notice his absence. He wants you to chase after him.

If you don’t want to play those games with him, don’t do what he wants you to do. Don’t engage with him. Don’t give him attention.

Once he realizes the silent treatment doesn’t work on you, he’ll go about getting your attention in a different way. He might tell you why he’s upset or he might chase after you himself.

When a Gemini man is done with you for good, though, he’ll just move on. You ignoring him will make it easier for him to slip away.

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Hang Out With Others

If a Gemini man is distancing himself from you, the best thing to do is start hanging out with other people.

He’s not the only person in your life. Show him that! You’ve got other friends. You may even have other romantic interests.

Spend time with your other friends. Go on dates. Don’t let his silent treatment get you down or keep you from living your life.

If he’s giving you the silent treatment to try and get your attention, this is another way you can show that doesn’t work with you!

If he’s playing hard to get, he’ll stop that right away and go after you if he sees that you’re dating other people. He’ll see that he needs to step up and let you know how he feels instead of playing games.

Do Something Fun

Getting the silent treatment from somebody you care about never feels good, no matter the reason for it.

If he’s giving you the silent treatment following an argument, you might be tempted to wallow and feel bad for yourself. Don’t do that!

Instead, go do something fun. If he doesn’t want to talk to you about what’s wrong like an adult, don’t give him the satisfaction of knowing he’s upset you.

Go spend time with your friends and family. Go to the spa. Take yourself to a new restaurant you’ve been wanting to try or to the latest exhibit at your local museum.

Do whatever you can to cheer yourself up and take the focus away from the Gemini man who is ignoring you.

If he sees that you’re having fun, that might get him to stop giving you the silent treatment. He’ll likely see that you’re having a good time instead of feeling bad and he’ll change his tune completely.

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Focus On You

If a Gemini man is giving mixed signals, don’t let it get to you. If he’s alternating between talking to you every day and giving you the silent treatment, just ignore it.

Instead of focusing on him and the way he’s treating you, focus on yourself.

You might want to take some time to consider your relationship with him.

Does he frequently give you the silent treatment instead of addressing any problems between you? Do you want to continue to be in a relationship with somebody who does that?

Take some time to think about what you want. If this is the first time he’s done this, think of how you can address the situation with him.

You might decide to let him know that you don’t appreciate him avoiding you instead of just talking about how he feels. You might also decide that you just don’t want to deal with him.

Post on Social Media

If a Gemini man has stopped texting you, look on social media to see what he’s up to.

If he usually posts on social media often and you see that he’s not, then he’s likely not giving you the silent treatment. Something else is going on.

If he’s posting all over the place and interacting with other people, though, then he probably is ignoring you.

Start posting more. Post pictures of you doing fun things with your friends. Post random updates on your life. Just post a silly meme or two if you feel like it.

He’ll likely see these posts. He’ll see that his silent treatment isn’t bothering you and that might make him reconsider his actions. He may break his silence to reply to your posts.

If he wasn’t giving you the silent treatment in the first place, he’s also likely to respond to your posts. Either way, this is a good way to get his attention.

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Text Him

If a Gemini man has gone silent, you can try reaching out to him. If you’re not sure he’s actually giving you the silent treatment, this is the best thing to do.

He might have just missed your last text. If this is the case, he’ll probably reply and apologize for failing to respond before.

If he’s ignoring messages but not trying to give you the silent treatment, he won’t read them or send read receipts.

If he’s giving you the silent treatment, though, he’s going to leave all your messages on read. He does that on purpose so that you know he’s ignoring you on purpose.

Don’t React

How does a Gemini man test you when he’s playing games? The silent treatment is one way he does this.

If you think he’s testing you or playing games with you, don’t react. Don’t give him the satisfaction of knowing his silent treatment is bothering you.

You want to show him that he’ll need to talk to you if something is wrong. You also want to show him that he needs to tell you how he feels if he’s trying to get your attention.

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Mutual Friends

If a Gemini man is ignoring you, reach out to your mutual friends. You want to see if it’s you he’s ignoring or if he’s just being quiet in general before you do anything else.

Your mutual friends might also be able to offer some insight on why he’s ignoring you if that’s what is going on. He’s likely told somebody else what you did to upset him, even if he won’t tell you.